Thursday, February 2, 2006

Hello, All!!!

Hi, everyone!!!!  Here's what's going on so far:

I was supposed to take a skills test for a dispatcher position at the University Of Houston on Wednesday, but we had a bout of HORRIBLE weather, and I wasn't able to go.  This morning, after having done my hair, taken a shower, and given myself a pedicure the night before to be ready for the test, I wound up having to stay at the school with my middle daughter, Maya, who hasn't been finishing her assignments and doing well on her tests.  I stayed the ENTIRE day, because I wanted to find out what the problem was.  I found that she was struggling to stay on track with her teacher from assignment to assignment, and wasn't using class time properly.  I was able to guide her into doing it today, and I am also scheduled to sit in with her tomorrow morning and Monday morning.  I also spoke to the school district psychologist (who just happens to be a young black lady who is a candidate for her Ph.D; woo-hoo!), and she advised me that she and her team will work closely with my two older daughters, who are still having adjustment problems.  My oldest daughter is having the roughest time, and they believe her situation might be more serious, such as a probable anxiety disorder.  I approved of all the procedures and counseling that they feel is required.  I need help in trying to move this family forward, and it's nice to know that there are people in my corner.  I want my children to work through their problems, and to ultimately succeed.  The only way that they will do that is to deal with whatever problems they may be having right now before they become adults.  Trust me, it doesn't get better as time passes, it gets worse!  I am glad that they are receiving the help that they need early.

Having to sit in with Maya apparently was a Godsend today, because there was a car jacking that turned into a police chase, a crash, then a fatality (the officers shot the perpetrator; the child that was in the back of the car witnesses all of this!) on I-45 south, which happens to be the interstate I have to take to get to the campus!!!!  Traffic was backed up for hours, and the traffic monitors on the radio were advising drivers to try and find another way home.  Can you imagine what I would have felt like if I was stuck in all that crap???!!!???  God certainly watches out for me!

Great news...........I called the Louisiana Department of Education again, and the lady I spoke with found my high school transcript, and is sending it off today!  Friends, please pray with me that it arrives before Wednesday (that's when the recruiter in Conroe goes before the board to select the new employees).  Your prayers have worked so far, please continue to do so!!!!  I thank y'all so much!!!!

Thanks again for your prayers and well wishes, and I will continue to visit as many of you as possible.  LOL!!!!!!   

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Although moving to a completely different state and school would be tramatizing, I'm sure your babies will adjust. I'm glad there are people to work with them though. But it was a good thing you had to stay there, that traffic sounds like it was horrible. That was nobody but God. I'm so glad they found your transcript, I pray it'll get there in time. Thanks for your comments and prayers.

Chaa

Anonymous said...

i havent been reading at the beginning of time i just started coming to your journal what adjustment problems does you kids have? Sometimes them therapist can make you seem crazy but its nothing that you cant sit down and handle yourself maybe a bonding time.

Anonymous said...

Ms Ford, you are a wonderful Mother. Praying God continues to bless you and your family.

hugs
Lahoma

Anonymous said...

I tried to send you an emial but it said you are not a known member?  oh, well!!
Your kids have been thru a lot, give them time.  I had people tell me , when we did foster care, that with love they should be able to adjust.  sometimes kids need more than just love, they need help on being able to handle life and sometimes we, as parents are not enough.  praying for you!!!
Becky

Anonymous said...

HEllo my sistah..you know I can't say it enough..GOD IS ALWAYS IN CONTROL and knows BEST!!! SUCCESS IS ALWAYS YOURS!!

FLAVA
http://thelifeandtimesofflava.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Hey!
Congrats On Being on the Journal Picks This week! Very Well Deserved!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on being Editor's Pick!!
Dianna

Anonymous said...

YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND MY FINGERS ARE CROSSED THAT IT ARRIVES ON TIME....

LOVE YA
KISHA