BACK FROM THE 'SIPP

We're back from visiting the relatives in Mississippi! We did a LOT of eating and resting! LOL The girls came back home with a trunk full of goodies. I received quite a special gift myself! My sister-in-law purchased this Coach wallet for me:







Nice, isn't it?

I am going to have to buy her something nice, even if it means that I have to purchase her gift early. You know, I am good at buying things for myself, but when it comes to other people.......well, I suck. It isn't that I don't want to buy a nice gift for someone; I don't have a lot of girlfriends......I'm lying.....the ONLY "girlfriend" that I have is my mom. LOL Girlfriends can help each other with those kinds of things. Even sisters. She has a little sister whose very stylish, and that she hangs out with all of the time. I always try very hard, but I fail every time. But I am going to strive to be successful this year, even if I have to pull someone over and beg them to help me! This is the second time that she's bought me a nice gift, and this year, I aim to please!

I was charged with something major last year, fraudulently applying for government assistance. I didn't do this, of course, but set out to pay the state back what they said I owed them. This evening, when I cam home, I received a letter in the mail that found the charges made against me to be false. In other words, I am NOT GUILTY. HALLELUJAH! I will call them tomorrow and find out if this means that I don't have to pay the state anymore, and will I receive a refund for what I already paid them. Ain't God GOOD?!?

Adrian

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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CHRISTMAS EVE!

Well, we didn't get Friday off, but the supervisors did. That's okay, though. I am still off today and tomorrow. Since I am off Saturday and Sunday, Pops decided that it would be best for us to go to Mississippi this weekend. We are already packed, so we will be leaving out Friday evening once my class is over with. Plus, the girls and I will able to spend this Christmas with my mom. I am still waiting for some last-minute gifts to arrive in the mail today (Mom's and Angela's).

Matthew sure is glad that I am home! LOL We have been spending a lot of time together. He says that I will get my Christmas present from him after the New Year, but he still bought me a few treats (some goodies from Bath & Body Works) in the meantime. Of course, he won't tell me what my present is. LOL

Honestly, I really wasn't expecting a Christmas gift. I'm satisfied because we have everything we need. Besides, I already bought myself a couple of Christmas presents (my Dooney & Bourke purse, which is sitting in its dust bag in my closet, LOL, and a Sparkling White Diamonds perfume set). Still, it's nice to know that Matthew wants to surprise me.

The classes I took this week dealt with crisis intervention and handling calls from individuals with mental illnesses. We watched "A Beautiful Mind" (the movie about Professor John Nash, who is also schizophrenic), and talked about depression, bipolar disorder (accompanied by some clips from the film "Mr. Jones"), suicide and autism (the fastest-growing mental illness in the nation right now). We learned that there are a lot of famous people, even folks who serve as lawmakers, who suffer with some of these disorders. We also watched a film and talked about suicide. We even participated in role-playing, where one of us played a caller who wants to commit suicide, and our instructor was the call taker. I am quite familiar with the subject matter (mental illness runs in my family) so it was kind of like a refresher course for me, but still I never cease to be amazed.

Adrian

PRESENTS!!!

The packages under the tree are steadily increasing! LOL I think I am going to have to let the tree skirt out a little more.

Mom needs me to go and run a few errands for her, so I am probably going to her house either today or tomorrow. It would be better tomorrow, because the traffic will be lighter.

As a Senior 911 Telecommunicator, I am taking some of the same classes that the new supervisors are taking. Well, remember when I told you that I will be off on Christmas Eve and Christmas? We have to return for a class the day after Christmas, and then be off again Saturday and Sunday. The sups are trying to find a way to convince the trainers to eliminate or reschedule that class so that we can have a 5 DAY holiday weekend! LOL If they are able to pull that rabbit out of the hat, wonderful! If not, it’s all good, because I am just grateful to be off for the holidays.

Matthew wanted to bring the girls to Mississippi this weekend, but none of us, him included, were ready to take a road trip this soon. We are probably going out there for Christmas, and just enjoy the ride and visit with his family for a day or so. If I am not off that Friday, we will have to leave on or before Christmas Eve, and return here Christmas Day. Either way it goes, Pops has to make it back here by Christmas, because he has to work Friday, too.

I also had to tie up some loose ends at the airport this week. It still had to do with that resignation/transfer issue, but its taken care of now. I am a stickler for following policies and procedures. I do not intend to violate anything that is on the books. That not only makes me look bad, but it can cause problems for the organizations that I am or were affiliated with. I know that there are a lot of people who could care less about protocol, but I have worked too hard and too darned long to build a reputable name for myself. I am determined to leave a good impression wherever I go, because I have learned the hard way that I never know when I will have to return somewhere, or if I will need someone from one of the organizations that I have worked for in the past to vouch for me. And it is much easier to return or to ask for a positive reference when you are remembered to be one that has left a place in good standing. It's better to know that you would gladly be welcomed back to an organization, then to have the organization feel that a huge weight has been lifted from their shoulders since you left, you know?

Punkin just woke up, so I am going to start fixing them some breakfast. I had taken some pictures of her in the Christmas play, but they came out so blurry that I felt that it would be a waste to post them. I wasn't sitting close enough to get a good picture.

FIRST DAY AT NEW JOB

I am SOOOOOOOOO tired........my cycle started today, and it is kicking my butt! LOL

Well, the first few weeks are strictly class instruction. I will not start training on the floor until possibly the start of the New Year. We have to cover a lot of the emergency center's policies and procedures. We were given 2 HUGE binders to utilize and study from. I have homework, too, so I cannot take long with this entry......LOL

We will be off four days after our first week, Christmas Eve and Christmas, New Year's Day, MLK weekend, and Saturdays and Sundays until our entire training is completed (about 2 to 3 months). I know that we also have to receive a statewide emergency certification, and I will ask the trainer if that is part of what we are doing now, or will that come later.

We had taken another tour of the facility, and met some of our supervisors. I will start training with my supervisor at the end of this month.

Sorry if this entry is a little vague. I will have more later. I am just exhausted (my hormones are going haywire), and need to go and do my homework.

Adrian

SNOW, AND OUR CHRISTMAS TREE!

It snowed yesterday! I was so excited! It started while I was going from store to store trying to find Matt his favorite multi-symptom medication (he's coming down with something, the poor darling! LOL). As night grew, the snow fell even heavier, covering the grass, the vehicles, and the rooftops. I stayed inside, but the girls went out and played in it for a little while.

The UPS people delivered our tree LATE in the evening, but we weren't angry at all! The girls were so happy, they were cheering and waving goodbye to the drivers as the truck drove off. You would think that Santa delivered the tree to us, the way those girls were cutting up! LOL

Poor Maya....she went to get her jacket and shoes so that she could go outside, and running inside the house, she tripped over a box, fell and hurt her legs. She was crying and humiliated, LOL, but once I gave her a couple of big hugs, cleaned her scratches and put band-aids on them, she was fine. I always will love that about Maya. She is the only one of my three girls that welcomes some "motherly comfort" when she hurts herself. My other two are just like me, tough as nails. LOL



Here's what's left of the snow this morning.....



Still some on the top of the car.....



A few flakes on the windshield......



Maya standing next to Nicolette's "snowman"....LOL



Here's the tree with the lights off.........



And with the lights on.

I wanted to make sure that the tree didn't look "dime store tacky." Here are a few of the "fancy" ornaments I put on the tree:



Beaded gold balls......



Bells.....



Teddy Bears......



And large gold balls.

It even looks great in the daytime!



Adrian

LIFE

Tonight was Angela's school wide field trip: dinner at McDonald's. All of the kids were having a blast running around the restaurant, yelling and screaming, playing in the Play Place, being served and cleaned-up after by the teachers and principal, and knocking the Christmas tree down. LOL Some of the proceeds earned from tonight's event are going to be donated to the school. That's a pretty good idea for a fund raiser; I mean, what kid is going to turn down a meal at McDonalds? LOL

My husband told me what he wanted me to buy him for Christmas. He wants three collectible die-cast buses to go with his train set. I can only afford one at a time, LOL, but he says that's fine with him. My husband has been especially gracious and generous to us all year. He has become an excellent provider. If you ask me, he don't have to buy us another thing. I am going to make doggone sure that I get him what he asked me for, and then some.

Last night was my last day at the airport. I turned in my badge and everything. I have taken the rest of the week off to rest up and get the girls ready for the coming days (I have to report to work in the mornings my first week, which means that they MUST catch that bus to school!). After my first week, I will be off four more days, then Monday I will start training on the floor. Tomorrow I go downtown for the drug test, and I just have to report for duty Saturday morning, 7 AM sharp.

I already know that I will have to study this city's street maps and area zip codes VERY WELL, because the information that I will be entering into the system for the callers determines whether the fire trucks or EMT's arrive at the right house! I asked Matt about a key map (his job provided with him with one), and he told me to ask them if they would provide one for me; they are VERY expensive. If they aren't able to, I am definitely going to make that investment myself. I realize that I will be responsible for people's lives (I have done this kind of work before), and I want to be as efficient as possible. Dispatchers can be very, very mean if you send them a crazy call, and rightfully so, because any errors in these types of calls can cause the loss of a life. And these dispatchers aren't civilians (I was a civilian police dispatcher in New Orleans), they are ACTUAL firemen, EMT's, and police officers! I know how important this job is, and I am preparing myself mentally. I don't take the fact that these folks were willing to take a chance on hiring me lightly. I am very grateful. I will strive to do my best, as always.

Still waiting for my tree; UPS says that it will be here tomorrow. Can't wait!!!

Adrian

SUNDAY SCRIPTURES

"Honor the LORD with your possessions,
And with the firstfruits of all your increase;" (Proverbs 3:9)

8 “ Will a man rob God?
Yet you have robbed Me!
But you say,

‘ In what way have we robbed You?’
In tithes and offerings.
9 You are cursed with a curse,
For you have robbed Me,
Even this whole nation.
10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse,
That there may be food in My house,
And try Me now in this,”
Says the LORD of hosts,

“ If I will not open for you the windows of heaven
And pour out for you such blessing
That there will not be room enough to receive it.
11 “ And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes,
So that he will not destroy the fruit of your ground,
Nor shall the vine fail to bear fruit for you in the field,”
Says the LORD of hosts;
12 And all nations will call you blessed,
For you will be a delightful land,”
Says the LORD of hosts. (Malachi 3:8-12)

14Do all things without grumbling and
faultfinding and complaining [[l]against God] and [m]questioning and doubting [among yourselves],

15That you may show yourselves to be blameless and guiltless, innocent and uncontaminated, children of God without blemish (faultless, unrebukable) in the midst of a crooked and wicked generation [spiritually perverted and perverse], among whom you are seen as bright lights (stars or beacons shining out clearly) in the [dark] world,

16Holding out [to it] and offering [to all men] the Word of Life: (Philippians 2:14-16)

Adrian

IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN WORSE, BUT IT WASN'T......PART 3

I found out today that instead of turning in a resignation letter, my move was supposed to be treated as a transfer. OOPS. I didn't know; the people that I needed to ask were on Thanksgiving vacation! I asked one of my co-workers who transferred to another department within this division (and returned here), and she told me that I was supposed to turn one in. I wound up having to explain this to HR, who thakfully didn't make a big deal out of it at all. I will keep my tenure, my city information, and all of my benefits, and not lose them.

Also, the lady down at city hall who is scheduling my drug test called me after 5 PM, while I was at work. I tried to call her back with the number Pops gave me, but no one was in the office by the time I had called. I guess they will be calling me on Monday.

Another co-worker of mine, an operator, was offered the same job, but turned it down. He says that it is because they don't do deferred holidays there. I am already aware that as a floater, I won't be able to take off like I am able to do now. But when I first started working here, the same rules applied. If I make it the first year, I will be assigned my own set schedule, so I am not sweating it. He also said that he likes his co-workers, which is true. They all have a friendship-clique thing going on over there that's cute. Plus, he is going to apply for MY position once it becomes available. The emergency center didn't offer him as much money as they offered me, which is kind of funny. But I have a lot of experience, and a lot of skills under my belt that they need, and I am sure that definitely helped to boost my salary offer. (See what I have to endure when folks know my business? LOL)

Believe me, if they would have offered me what I thought I was going to be paid based on the pay grade that was listed, I would have stayed here. But their offer is significantly higher than I had expected, even what I had initially asked for! And it is just the right opportunity at the right time. And as with all things, I will give these people their money's worth; I will make sure that they won't regret hiring me! My co-worker says that he may follow me later on; We'll see about that........LOL

I really don't want to sound like I am some kind of gold-digging woman who will do anything for money, forsaking her kids and all. I am not. On the contrary, I am, in a way, doing this for them. I have always been the kind of person that does whatever I know I have to do, regardless of what anyone else thinks. I have learned how not to let opinions, uncertain relationships, and fear of the unknown stop me from reaching my goals. This is a trait that I am determined to model consistently for my daughters, because they will need to be this way when they are adults. And it helps that I have a husband who is very supportive. He is not the kind of man who says "go for it, babe!", then when times get tough, he turns around and blames me for everything that goes wrong! He digs in with me, and does whatever he needs to do to help me make it, and I love him for that. My mom is pretty supportive of me, too. It helps to have people who are in your corner, especially when you are as young as I am (I ain't even 35 yet!!!! LOL).

I just might ask to take off Monday. I just don't want to make this departure any harder on myself than it has to be. I just want to leave. QUIETLY.

Adrian

THAT WASN'T SO BAD.........I THINK (PART 2)

Upon my return to work yesterday, I discovered that one of my supervisors had taken it upon himself to send an e-mail telling EVERYBODY that I was leaving. I guess he didn't speak to MY supervisor about how I wished that this would be handled before I left. It's okay, though, I won't be there much longer anyway. I know that my departure could have been handled better than that. I know that for a fact, because I have seen it happen many times. I would have liked to have had the opportunity to tell the co-workers MYSELF that I am leaving (I think that I am capable of handling that, don't you think?). Maybe expect to be treated with a little respect, and be able to leave with some dignity, without all of the questions and the "so-sorry-to-see-you-go" comments. But this is ME that we are talking about here. I guess different rules apply in my case. Then, he adds at the end of the message that "he knows that he speaks for everyone when he says that I will be missed." And just how, may I ask, does he know that? There may be some there that are glad that I am leaving, for all he knows. Whatever.

Well, at least I have been left with the choice not to disclose my future plans. I don't have a lot of friends there, anyway (for whatever reason; I guess I didn't try hard enough or something), so I don't feel comfortable sharing that kind of information with people I am not that close to.

I have an exit interview this afternoon with one of the HR ladies. Basically, they are going to be asking me questions, like "why I am leaving," and "did I like my boss" (LOL). My responses are supposed to help them come up with ways to improve the department, and help retain the workers that they have,and will have in the future. I am going to pray today that the Lord will help me with these responses. I usually don't offer any feedback, but I am hoping that my responses will help them make some much-needed improvements. My feedback, I have been told, will not get back to them, but I don't trust that. I am always aware of the need to be tactful and respectful, even in an environment that doesn't encourage it.

I realized that I really DO need this new job; I thought that I was paying once a month for medical insurance. I am paying biweekly for mine, and the girls' medical insurance!!! That's a little over $200 a month!!! Thank God for opportunities! I will be making enough at this new job to cover that plus any additional expenses that may occur.

The parent-teacher conference for Angela went well. Her teacher is concerned because Angela is not performing at her grade level. That didn't surprise me at all; none of my children were prepared, to say the least, for the school system that they have here. The New Orleans' school system was dysfunctional, and parents and teachers had to struggle to teach and learn in the barest of conditions. Though I was working at Wal-Mart then, I put all three of the girls in private school (before Katrina hit), because it was the only way to guarantee that they would get a decent education. Now, the schools that they are going to here in Houston try desperately to prepare these kids for college! Whenever my oldest daughter says things to me like she wants to continue her education, and even tells me what university she wants to go to, you know that they are doing something right here! Anyway, she wants to have Angela tested for dyslexia (Angela writes a lot of her letters and numbers backwards, and at her age, she should have stopped this by now), and I will have her screened for ADD and ADHD. Nicolette is ADD, and she has completed treatment and takes a mild medication during the school year that helps her to focus. She is doing swell now! The teacher also wants to schedule more tutoring for Angela, but I told her that if Angela is retained, that's fine; I am not about rushing a child to be and do things that she isn't ready for yet. But once we pinpoint any possible issues, or lack thereof, I know that Angela's ability to learn will improve tremendously.

She also told me how "cute" she thinks Angela is, which we already know, too. Angie is just ADORABLE, without even trying to be! LOL

I purchased a white, pre-lit Christmas tree (with the clear lights) from Wal-Mart for only $35!!! I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE WAL-MART!!!! I am so excited! I am going to decorate it with red and gold ornaments, a tree skirt, and a nice tree topper. There may not be any presents under it this year, but at least we will have a tree! LOL Of course, I will post a picture once I put it up, so you can see how pretty it is!

Adrian

WELL,THAT WASN'T SO BAD...........

I turned in my two-weeks resignation letter yesterday. I waited until the right time, and stressed to my supervisor the need to "leave quietly." He understood completely (God bless older gentlemen!), and said that he wishes the same for himself when the time comes for him to leave (he is retiring soon). He promised me that if word gets out, it won't be from him. That's how I like to work. No muss, no fuss, no ruckus. I'm in, and then I'm out.

I am scheduled to be off the four days before my first day on the new job, start my five-day week of training there, and will be off four days afterward. This is excellent timing, because since my first week of training is in the morning, I will be able to attend all of Angela's upcoming Christmas performances! I am waiting for the call to go downtown and take my preliminary drug test.

Today was also my first dental appointment in 2 years. These people were EXTREMELY professional, which helped, because my teeth are in REALLY bad shape, and I am really self-conscious about it. I need major dental work done, y'all. MAJOR dental work. My dental insurance isn't too killing bad; It is covering 60% of the total cost! But there is still a lot of money that I will have to pay myself out-of-pocket. Since I am clearing my credit, I didn't want to open a credit account, even though I probably would be approved for it. I am going to save some of the money up, and use my income tax return to pay for the work. I will have to wait until next year, but at least I will be paying cash, and won't have to owe anyone ANYTHING. I went in, found out what I needed to have done, and the cost. All I have to do now is wait, and pray, and save, and anticipate the day that will soon come where I will be able to eat salads again.

In the meantime, I purchased some IMAKO cosmetic teeth. My mom told me about them. It is sort of like a "flipper" that you mold and clip to your own teeth, giving you the appearance of a beautiful smile for a really cheap price! I paid $40 for mine from AmeriMark . I cannot eat with them, but I CAN smile confidently and talk with them. No permanent fix, of course, but I can smile at my kids, husband, family and friends! That's all that they are for, anyway. What do you think?



They'll do until I can start my dental work. It's all good.

I have a parent-teacher conference with Angela's teacher tomorrow afternoon. ~SIGH~ I know that Angela is trying to catch up, but lately, I've had to call her teacher on sending home papers for me to sign, that were graded by other students in the class, that aren't checking Angela's paper correctly. This results in Angela having a lower grade recorded in the grade book than she should, which means a lower grade on her report card. Looks like I am going to have to start visiting Angela's school more frequently to find out what the hell is going on over there. Angela is so fun-loving and carefree, though. She doesn't give a whit, LOL. I am going to have to start urging her to be more dutiful, and care more, somehow. Wish me the best on that one.

Adrian

BLACK FRIDAY STEAL...I MEAN, DEAL!!!!! LOL

Today, Matthew and I bought Maya her Nintendo DS!!!! Matthew was online looking up the Black Friday deals, and I asked him to look up video games on the Circuit City website. There, they had this Nintendo DS bundle for only $139!!!!

If I would have bought her the color that she wanted (crimson and black), and the game by themselves, it would have cost me $150, and that doesn't include tax, or a case! But this bundle includes the gaming device, one of the games she wanted (Brain Age), and a matching carrying case!!!! She was an easy sell on the pretty ice blue color (blue is her favorite color, anyway). We couldn't beat that deal, so we hurried on over and picked it up!

Maya is a VERY blessed little girl! :-)

Adrian

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

My Thanksgiving dinner is DELICIOUS! Spiral-sliced brown sugar and honey-glazed ham, baked macaroni, rice dressing, cornbread stuffing, green peas, 2 turkey roasts (I don't trust myself with a whole bird yet), a chocolate cake with cream-cheese frosting, and sweet potato pies!!!! MMMMMMMMM-MMMMMMMM! LOL

I shared some of my dinner with a male co-worker........he ate it ALL!!! LOL He's getting ready to make coffee to go with his desserts.

I had a chance to get my hair done (locs tightened, and my loctician gave me a "3-in-1" hairdo (double-strand twisted locs into a bun; The bun is one style, the double-strand twists is another, and my hair will be "crinkled" once I take the twists down ) and my eyebrows shaped this week, too! I'm looking GOOD............

And I made my decision about the job. I'm going to take it. I am in the process of trying to leave, so I will keep any readers updated on the details as I go along. I am hoping and praying that the transition will be a smooth one, without any confusion. But you know me........if they want to start some foolishness, bring it ON...............LOL

Adrian

DECISIONS, DECISIONS.............

I realized that I haven't said much about my children lately. The title of this blog is "Diary Of A Young Black MOTHER"........so, here's a little update about them:

Nicolette told me a few days ago that she is interested in going to college, namely the University of Houston! I must say that I am quite proud, and very impressed. She hasn't quite figured out what she wants to do with her life yet (She said once that she is interested in becoming a police detective), but she has time to decide. I have begun praying and asking the Lord to help Matthew and I make this happen for her. This new attitude she has, I believe, can definitely be contributed to this new environment, and high-achieving school district that we are in.

Angela is doing better at school. She was having a tough time catching up in her studies, especially reading, but she has extended day for two days, plus she is involved in an extra-curricular activity (school choir) that helps boost her little self-esteem. I try to attend all of the open houses, reading/math nights, PTA meetings and workshops that the school has, to show the teachers that I am interested in her education. I also encourage her to read more, and she is checking out library books and reading aloud to her sisters and I. I find that when I attend these school functions, I am able to assess the teaching styles, and find out what issues need to be addressed as far as helping the teachers help my girls, and what I can do to help the teachers as much as I can. As a result, the teachers kind of go the extra mile with my kids, and treat them better. That definitely helps the girls do better in school, because they feel valued.

Maya is a hard worker when it comes to her school work. She was disappointed because she didn't make the honor roll (she struggles with math, just like I did), but she tries really hard to make a passing grade. All of her other grades are A's and B's. I am still working on getting her a Nintendo DS for Christmas. That is all that she has been asking me for, and I feel that she deserves it. But she knows that if the money isn't there for holiday time, I will get it for her as soon as I can.

The airport has decided that they aren't going to 10-hour shifts. Our department will remain at 8-hour shifts, but I still haven't ruled out the possibility of working at the HEC center yet. I have my husband's blessing. He says that he doesn't see a problem with taking advantage of an opportunity to better myself, and make more money, which will help me accomplish more things that I need and want to do. Some of those things are returning to school, getting physically fit again (I am not a big woman, praise the Lord, but I can still use regular exercise. There was a free gym at the call center where I used to work in New Orleans, that I used faithfully), and get some much-needed dental work done. My husband has a lot of confidence in my abilities. He knows that one of the joys of my life is working. I have a lot of energy, I work hard, and I care about everything I do . He supports me 100%. However, when I asked the girls what they thought after explaining to them what taking this new job would entail (less time at home for the first year, and more responsibility), they weren't too thrilled about the idea.

I started doing my own research on what it would be like to work at this place. A few years ago, there were some prominent news reports documenting some serious problems the employees were having at the call center, like equipment crashes, insufficient or short staffing, which caused a lot of forced overtime, and management issues. It seems to me that management issues are a city-wide problem here in Houston. A lot of these complications were brought about by change (in 2003-2004, all of the Houston emergency call centers were moved into this building; all departments (Police, Fire, EMS) under one roof), and the facilitation of the city's union contract. Since 2004, there were maybe three or four other articles written on the working conditions there, and even a city controller's report on how conditions have improved about 50% (in 2007), but nothing more recent.

I know that I will be in for a challenge if I decide to work there. To what extent, however, is not known. Plus, I calculated the "extra" money that I will have the potential to make (not counting the overtime), and it doesn't come out to very much. With the city-wide raise coming up soon, the annual salary comparison for my job and the HEC center position differ by only $600. Again, that's not counting the overtime. I guess the question is, do I really want to throw myself into a potentially stressful environment right now? Am I really that desperate for a "challenge?" I worked in a pressure-cooker situation like that before, and it took its toll on me. I am not so sure that I want to subject myself to that again. On the other hand, I will never know whether I can handle it, whether I will like it or not, or whether this is the place for me, if I don't try it. I am tempted to just go and give it a shot, and maybe ask for my old job back if the place isn't for me. But what if I can't return to my old job? Plus, Matthew says that they will be making some changes on HIS job, probably at the end of this year or the beginning of next year, that will definitely affect family life on the home front. There are too many questions that I have that I just don't have any answers for. I will have to take these concerns up with the recruiter/HEC supervisor before I make my decision. You would think that my answer would be simple, right?

Well, at least I have a week (I am off five days before Thanksgiving) to mull it over..............

Adrian

PRODUCT RECOMMENDATIONS

I do these posts every now and then. This is my first time, of course, attempting to do this on Blogger. I love plugging certain products that I am using, especially if they are economical and work much better than I expected them to. I am NOT getting paid for these! LOL I have run across quite a few winners lately. Here is my list:

1) Dove go fresh Energizing Body Mist

My favorite scent is the grapefruit and lemongrass. Lasts all day! I wish the deodorant worked as well. Everybody tells me that I smell like I am using something from Bath and Body Works! This spray sells out all of the time. Ladies, please think about me while you're out shopping, and before grabbing about three or four bottles.....LOL

2) Vaseline Intensive Care Cocoa Butter Range Products

I LOVE the Vitalizing Gel Body Oil and the Deep Conditioning Extra Rich Cream! They both have a light but SWEET buttery fragrance! The oil makes my legs look fabulously hydrated. Great for using after a bath or shower. A small investment, but well worth the price!

3)Always Maximum Protection Pantyliners

4) O.B. Tampons

VERY tiny and discreet, but this tampon delivers maximum protection!

5) ROMA laundry detergent

This product of Mexico smells WONDERFUL, is VERY inexpensive, and gets my clothes clean! This is the first powder detergent that I have EVER used that does what it says; I only need about a scoop and a half for a big load of laundry. Use any more, and those suds will be everywhere! 2 bags can fill one of your large detergent containers, and will last about a month and a half to two months! Also washes great in cold water!

I hope that you will enjoy using these products as much as I do!

Adrian

THE TOP 10 MOST IRRITATING PHRASES

Oxford University compiled this list of the ten most irritating phrases being used today. These are some good choices, but I know that there are more out there that are equally as irritating. Here's the list, and I have added my choice at the end. Feel free to add some of yours!

The top ten most irritating phrases:

1 - At the end of the day
2 - Fairly unique
3 - I personally
4 - At this moment in time
5 - With all due respect
6 - Absolutely
7 - It's a nightmare
8 - Shouldn't of
9 - 24/7
10 - It's not rocket science

And my top irritating phrase is "My thing is..................." Different variations of this phrase ("but my thing is;" "and my thing is;" "See, my thing is;".....) are used mainly by extremely self-centered individuals who sincerely believe that their opinions are always welcome, valued, and relevant. Most of the time, of course, they're not, but this fact isn't enough stop these folks from sharing them with you, or anyone within earshot, because, quite frankly, it's "their thing", right? Their moment, their cause, their project, their feelings, their point of view, their demands, their issues..........and who wouldn't want to know what "their thing" is, right? Of course we do, because after all, it is "their" world!

Adrian

WEIGHING OPTIONS PART 2

Today I went for my interview at the HEC center. I though that this was going to be merely a look-see, but I had taken a test, was involved in the question-and-answer process before a panel (which usually takes place during the final interview), and had taken a tour! I am so glad that I dressed well, and had gotten enough rest (I left work early last night so that I could rest up). They seemed pleased with me; I just went in as myself. I am finding that the older I get, the easier it is for me to speak my peace without being tactless or disrespectful, while at the same time garnering esteem.



That's one nice facility they have there! They have a workout gym, lockers, showers, 2 large break rooms, and the call center is divided into different sections. The firemen, fire and ambulance dispatchers, 911 operators and police dispatchers all have their own area. The seating positions and equipment is state-of-the-art. I am not interviewing for 911 dispatch (thank the Lord); if I am selected, I will be training for fire and ambulance dispatch. Coming in as a senior, I will not have to train as long as I had to train at the airport (the training coordinator estimated that my training will probably last about a month and a half). However, in the first year of my employment, I will be a "floater." This means that I will not have set off days or shifts until I complete my year and bid. She says that she needs people for evening and night shifts, and she will put me wherever she needs me. I think I can handle that. I work some nights now when people call in, and I need evenings, because of the kids. I am already on evening shift, so it shouldn't be a problem.



They have 5 different shifts to choose from, 3 regular and 2 swing. Only one of her swing shifts is 10-hour, with three days off. But I will not have to work that if I don't want to, once my year is up, which is good. I will have a choice. At the airport, everyone is going to ten-hour shifts whether they want to or not. There are no other options available to us.



I did mention already that the call center is literally minutes away from my house. I don't even have to get on the freeway and fight traffic to get there. This morning, I arrived to the center earlier than the coordinator did! LOL



I saw one of the ladies who went for the Stafford job. Her interview and testing was right after mine. I hope she did well.



I am not worried at all whether I will be selected or not. Like I said before, I am not in a bind; I already have a job. I just think that a change, a challenge, would be nice. I will be in a new environment learning new things. I have never done ambulance or fire dispatch before. She told me to give her a call in a few weeks to see what her status is; she is interviewing 14 people for the 4 positions she has available, and she wishes to make her selections by December 8th. If I am chosen, great; if not, that's fine, too. I have prayed about it, and it's in the Lord's hands. Wherever He leads me, if its to stay at the airport or embark on this new opportunity, I will be satisfied either way.



Adrian

WEIGHING OPTIONS

The interview went very well. They are seriously considering hiring me, but the training coordinator is concerned about hiring me because of the distance that I would have to drive. I have thought about that, too, but here's the thing; if I stay where I am, my schedule will be 1:30 pm to 12 midnight, with probably Mon-Tue-Wed or a Tue-Wed-Thu off. Stafford PD is still on 8-hour shifts, but they will soon switch to 12-hours (7A-7P, and 7P-7A), with an option of a Sat-Sun-Mon, Sun-Mon-Tue, or Wed-Thu-Fri off. Either way it goes, I would still have a weekend day off, plus I would be off ALL DAY before having to return to work. And, I will be paid more. The only detail that I would have to iron out is making sure that the girls get to school on time in the mornings on the days that I am working. The two older girls don't have to be at school until 8:30, but the little one has to be there by 8, and will have to take the bus on those days. If I get a Wed-Thu-Fri, then Angela would only have to bus Monday and Tuesday mornings.

I also received a call from the City Of Houston. They are interested in interviewing me for an available position in the emergency communications center. I have an issue with the city to clear up first before she can run my background check, but she told me that she has a few more potential prospects. She gave me until Friday to take care of it, so that she can process all of us together.

Again, I must stress that there are no major problems where I work now. It's just that the new scheduling will be an issue for me. I am trying to work LESS hours, not more! And if I have to work more hours, that's fine, but it would be nice if the schedule was made well enough to accommodate everyone who works in the department, not just a few. I mean, what mother would want to get off at 12 midnight, when she has to get up at 5:30 AM? By the time those three days off finally roll around, I will be beat! I feel like I am always having to fight and battle to make sure that I am able to balance family and work life. I need to do both; dropping any of these obligations is not an option. My family is my priority. I came with them. LOL They didn't just "drop in" my life all of a sudden. And for anyone to insist that a decision must be made between family or work, to me, is irrational. So, here I am, yet again, trying hard to maintain balance.

Matthew came home early yesterday. We went and bought Nicolette a new bed (a full-size with a pillow top mattress!), and went to eat at Fuddruckers (a hamburger joint) with a friend of his, who also wound up staying with us until dusk (He had to leave for work before dinner was finished). I had a lot of fun yesterday, which is a luxury for me. I rarely have any downtime, and that is dangerous, because remaining in a constant state of purpose has the potential to cloud my judgement a lot of times. There are other reasons why I want to work somewhere else that has nothing to do with scheduling, and I cannot mention them here. I can say that I am determined to do my best at anything that is set before me. I am not a quitter, and I don't give up. I have grown up around people who were quitters, who became content with anything that was handed to them, and who easily made excuses for why their lives couldn't be any better. They didn't even try. I also had people in my life who wanted to do better, but just couldn't for reasons beyond their control. I know and believe that the ones who wanted desperately to have a better life but couldn't by no fault of their own (mental illnesses, physical handicaps,etc.) would have had one if there was an opportunity for them to do it. I am determined that as long as there is breath in my body, and my limbs are in use, that I will do the best that I can, and refuse to allow myself to make an excuse for why I shouldn't or can't to anything to better my life or myself.

Everyone doesn't think like that. There are those who see the results of integrity, but are not willing to do what it takes to acquire them. Instead of attempting to achieve a measure of integrity themselves, they band together to try and make life harder for people who have it.

Adrian

BUSY WEEK

Tomorrow morning, I have a job interview. Yes, a job interview for a police telecommunicator position with the Stafford Police Department. I had taken the test for it Saturday morning, and passed with flying colors. No, I am NOT in trouble at my current job. LOL On the contrary, I am doing very well. I am in no hurry to move. I am just weighing other options. They are getting ready to make some changes here that may affect family life at home in a big way (10-hour shifts, etc.), so if there are opportunities to move to other environments that may offer better working conditions, I don't see anything wrong with taking a look at them.

I also have to take a flu shot on Friday. I missed both chances at the free ones they were giving out here (I was off on the days that they gave them), but now the city is offering all employees a $10 shot. I had to register for it and everything. Another task that has to be done before I have to go to work. Great. LOL Well, at least the interview is on my day off. And you already KNOW that "the Dooney" is going to show out Tuesday! LOL What's great is that I already have a cute pair of shoes that has the same colored top stitching as my purse does. The training coordinator told me to "dress for the part," so I will try to look my best!

I asked Matthew what he thought about all of this, and he just told me to go and see what the job was all about. My husband is SO supportive. LOL

I am also beginning the process of helping the girls at home get ready for the TAKS test. Angela's school sent home some reading and math workbooks, and I had to check textbooks out for Nicolette to bring home. I will work with Nicolette on my days off, and I will work with Angie on the weekends, before going to work. Angela is scheduled for after-school tutorials on my off days, plus she has choir rehearsal early Tuesday morning. I am also thinking about sending her to church Wednesday nights to sing with the youth choir! I don't want to overwork her, but I think that keeping her busy, especially in a constructive way, will help her in the long run.

I REALLY, REALLY need to visit my loctician again. So much has happened to everyone during and after Hurricane Ike, and many people are still playing catch-up. I called her not too long after the storm, and she didn't return my phone call. I began thinking that she didn't want me to be her customer anymore (you know how we tend to let our minds play tricks on us), when I spoke to the lady at my church who referred me to her. Sister Francis said that the loctician didn't return her phone calls for awhile, either, and when she finally did, she told her that she wasn't going to be able to schedule an appointment for her until November! And Sister Francis is one of her BEST customers! LOL I will call her again, probably tomorrow or Wednesday, and see if she is able to fit me in soon.

I have to wash the girls' hair, too. I have been doing Nicolette's hair every weekend, because her hair was falling out. Now it is growing back healthy and thick, but I am ashamed to admit that I haven't been taking as intense an interest in my other two daughter's hair. And Maya's hair REALLY needs some attention. She has been wearing that fro puff for awhile now, with no complaints. But I know that she would love for her hair to be washed and braided like her sister's too. Angela's hair is still easy to manage. She has baby-fine hair, and she is still young enough that her hair is in that manageable stage. I am really, really considering perming their hair, simply because it would be "easier" for me, but I know all too well how bad chemicals can be for our hair. I am trying to hang in there and resist temptation. LOL

I am cooking for Thanksgiving, even though I will be working this holiday. Matt's friends are already making plans to come down. I am glad, because we really need people to help us eat all of that food! LOL

I had a really, really rough week last week. Matthew was pretty much a part of the problem. But he and I have since made up. I can't stay mad at him; the man is just so SEXY.........LOL :-)

Adrian

SPLURGE

Like it? I LOVE it!

Kinda nice..........

Well, I finally have my blog set up the way I want it, for now. Blogger has more of a grown-up feel to it. Maybe that's what we need sometimes, to grow up with some things. LOL I just hope that I'm not out of my element here, and out of my league. I have heard that some members of Blogger can be treacherous.

Matthew is back on his regular schedule. Thank you, Jesus!

The girls had really, really good report cards this semester. I am so proud of them. I think its because they really like their schools, and they love this new school district, and this area. What a difference a new environment can make!

I will write more later. Have to go and get ready for work. Today's my Friday, though...YAAAAY!

END OF THE YEAR SAVING TIPS

In two months, Christmas will be here.  Many Americans are already experiencing some serious financial problems.  Holidays can bring on additional stress-if you aren't prepared.  Here are some of my bona fide end-of-the-year tips that can and will help save you money, and bring you some peace of mind:

1) Cook your own holiday meals, or host a "holiday potluck" at home if guest are coming.  The latter guarantees that you will only have to be responsible for a few dishes yourself.    

2) Clip coupons.

3) Watch the weekly sales.  Buy meat and staples when they are sold at bargain prices, even if you don't need them at the moment.  Stock your freezer and pantry, so when the "lean weeks" roll around, you'll have plenty of food in your own home to eat.

4) Be creative.  Take advantage of recipes, and abandon conventionalism.  Eat breakfast for dinner if all you have is eggs in the refrigerator and grits in the pantry.  Who cares?  It's still food!  

5) Don't take unnecessary trips.  Plan your grocery, laundry, errand-running days, etc. on the same day, if possible.  Map out where you need to go.  Bring a list and stick to it.  This saves time, gas, and money.  A triple benefit!  

6) Bring your own lunch to work. Every day. Snacks too. Resist the urge to raid the snack machines and concessions, and you'll be surprised how much money you will save every month.

7) Stop smoking!

8) Prepare your kids to expect only one gift, or maybe even NO gifts, for Christmas.  Save those lavish gifts for their birthdays.  Remember, Christmas isn't their birthday, anyway.  Does this work in my household?  It definitely does.  I have been doing this for a number of years, and the girls really don't mind, just as long as they are rewarded for  their patience when the big days roll around!    

9) Watch that bank account!  Keep track of it online, and balance that checkbook!

10) Wash last season's winter clothes and wear them.  Don't buy anymore clothes unless you really need to.  Update your wardrobe with only a few pieces.  Let most of what you wear come from what you already have.  Bundle up in the winter months, and dress in layers.  Wearing more than one shirt, or "layering" is "haute couture." LOL

11) Be wise when and if you have to purchase another car.  If you haven't finished paying off the one you have, please don't buy another one yet.  If you MUST buy another car, do your research.  Figure out right now what you are able to afford (this figure includes taxes, title, license, insurance) and shouldn't go over  1/4 of your income.  Yes, this means that you may not be able to buy that beautiful truck or that hot sports car.  But the car you can afford is the one you really need.  You don't want to purchase something that you will hate to use because the price you are paying for it stresses you out all of the time

12) Need a cell phone? Consider a pre-paid plan.  Pre-paid phones today offer all the amenities of a plan phone (texting, media messaging, internet, unlimited night and weekends) without a contract.  I had one for three years (and still have one; I replaced the phone I lost with a cheaper handset so that I could keep my old number), and it has served me well.  These are really great for those of us who only need a phone for emergencies, to call close family members, and never use cell phones very much.  My kids alsohave pre-paid phones.  They know that the phones are to be used for emergencies only.  So far, they are doing extremely well with them.  I don't have to worry about them running up a $300 or $400 phone bill, because once those minutes are used up, that's it; no more phone until I am ready to buy more minutes!  Which would you rather, a heart attack over a pricey bill, or a $25 loss? 

13) Buy things that you will always need ( soap, shampoo, sanitary napkins and tampons, deodorant, etc.) in bulk, especially when they are on sale.

14) If you see something that you really like, buy it now, even if it isn't on sale. (This is in reference to clothing and shoes.)  You probably have the money for it right now.  It's foolish to say that you'll wait for it to go on sale, especially around the holidays, as if you were the only person looking at the same item in that size. You may pay a bit more, but at least you'll  have yours.

15) Use those grocery store discount cards!  Some offer up to 10 cents in savings at the pump (if they sell gasoline),  and are even linked to other stores where you can use their cards to save money also!  

16) If a grocery store TRIPLES coupons..............ah, you know where I am going with this one...LOL

17) Purchase generic brand food and prescriptions, if they are available.  Many times, the generic brands taste and work as good as the brand name!

18) Don't be ashamed to shop at a "hood" grocery store; a lot of bargains are to be found if you are willing to humble yourself!  Of course, go in the day time, be careful, and protect your belongings........LOL  

19) Buy your house cleaners, paper and supplies at a Dollar General, Family Dollar or any dollar store.

20) Nix your obsession with designer clothing.  If you MUST be a tag hag, shop around for bargains, and take advantage of sales.  Go to outlet stores. Places like Kohl's, Ross, Stein Mart, Burlington Coat Factory, etc. sells designer clothes at bargain prices.

21) Toss your loose change in a jar, and use the coins for the kids' lunch money.

22) Do your own hair, feet and nails.  Salons are a luxury; treat them as such.

23) Watch the movies and play the games that you already have at home.  Share movies, music and games with family, friends, and co-workers (make sure they return your stuff! LOL)

24) Set the air conditioner to the highest possible comfortable setting. 78-80 still leaves your home pretty comfortable.  Open windows and run the fans during the day.  Turn on the air after 8 PM. Turn it off in the early morning hours.

25) Shower.  Run water sparingly.  Don't use the dishwasher.

26) If your kid has a PSP, a Game Boy, an X-Box, a PlayStation, and a Cube, why in the heck does he or she need a Nintendo DS Lite? Come on, people! Same goes for cell phones (I know some kids who are on their TENTH phone), i-pods, and other electronics.  You are teaching your kids to be grossly unappreciative.  Buy them some good books instead. Or a telescope. Or a chemistry set.  Or an art/craft kit.  You get the idea.  

What end-of-the year tips do you have to share?  

Adrian

DON'T HAVE A SUBJECT FOR THIS ENTRY (LOL)

Pops and I had been involved in a bit of a spat (we're both tired and stressed from Ike); we didn't speak to each other for two days.  Today, he came home with one of those "I-know-I-don't-say-it-often-but-I-love-you cards, and a dozen mauve-colored roses.  Aren't they beautiful?

My husband sure knows how to treat a girl.  LOL  What I love about them is that this is one of the colors that I used for our wedding (cream and mauve).  I didn't think he remembered!

I had taken care of Angela's school situation.  For her safety (since I don't know who's reading this journal, you know what I'm saying?), I will not disclose the details.  Let's just say that plan A is in place, and will do until I can work out a better plan B.

Adrian

 

ISSUES

Pops is still working 12-hour shifts until further notice.  This is a problem for me, because Angela gets out of school at 3 PM.  She isn't bussed, and I will already be at work by the time she is dismissed.  Matthew couldn't give me any information on how long he will be working like this, etc.  I need to make arrangements, and I don't want to go to my supervisors without any concrete information.  She's 8 years old, and too young to walk home, especially for such a long distance. 

Some of the people at my church aren't faring to well.  I offered my assistance to anyone who needs it, and I went to visit an older member at her home this morning.  She didn't need anything but company and prayer.  Some people I know are in good health, have all of the use of their limbs, all of their teeth, a job, medical insurance, live in a nice home, have a nice car and a beautiful family, and complain like the world is going to end.  The lady I went to visit (Sister Moore) has all kind of health issues (diabetes, heart problems, pain in her legs, etc.), family issues (both of her daughters are in prison, so she is trying to raise the 5 grandsons alone), and was STILL able to smile, and praise the Lord, despite her circumstances!  Ladies and gentlemen, that's the picture of true, God-given joy!

I am off tomorrow and Wednesday, thank you JESUS!  The kids are out of school, too, until further notice.  I am praying that Angela will be out of school until Matthew returns to his normal work schedule.  That doesn't seem likely, though, since Matt says that they are expected to work like this for at least three months, or until they can bring all of the intersections up again.

Adrian

 

IKE PART 6: IT'S OVER!

The power came on this morning! YAAAAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!!!! LOL

I am in the process of cleaning up.  I have to pick up the tree branches and twigs in the back yard, put the trash out, wash the towels we used to soak up the water in the bedroom, and mop the floors. I already vacuumed the rug. I have to cook the meat that was potentially going bad.  And that wasn't much; only a pack of beef steaks and a bag of catfish nuggets I had in the freezer was affected; everything else is still good, thank Jesus!

The girls had a doctor's appointment scheduled today (second round of shots), but no one's in the office.  I left a message for them to call me back when they return so that I can reschedule.

After cleaning my house, I plan on going out and tackling those long gas lines.  I filled my gas tank before the storm hit, so I was fine.  I am down to a quarter now, though, so it's time to  fill it up again.

I haven't turned on the TV yet.  I am kind of burned out with storm coverage, you know?  When I get a chance, I'll probably put a movie on first, then watch more storm coverage.

I am praying for all of the families that have been hit really hard.  Believe me, I know what it is to have lost EVERYTHING and find yourself having to start all over again.  But I also know how awesome God is.  There is NOTHING that He can't do!  I am hoping that those who have been affected, if they haven't already, begun to recognize what's truly important in their lives.  Disasters have an uncanny ability to compel a person to re-examine their priorities.  That has happened to me, and I'll tell you, I have never enjoyed my life as much as I do now.  Material possessions can be replaced, but the things that remain after the devastation-your relationship with Jesus Christ, your family, and your character are eternal.  People who know this are truly free.  

I am hungry now.  LOL.  I have been on a fast since the storm hit, and I am ready to let loose!  Okay, I have to get back to making the house ready for the girls and husband to come home.  He's still out there, working 12-hour shifts, bringing home the bacon.  Looks like we are getting that clothes dryer that we needed really soon! LOL  God bless all of you that are reading this journal.  It's very difficult for me to complain and whine much.  Ask any blogger who has followed this journal since the beginning (I have been writing this since the aftermath of Katrina), and they can tell you how great a God I serve, and how good He has been to me and my family!  My heart is filled with peace, joy, and compassion.  And I am a strong black woman, LOL, but my strength comes from Him.  He cannot fail, so I am never afraid.  Be blessed, everyone!

Adrian        

 

IKE PART 5

Mom's power was turned on, and her water pressure returned to normal yesterday, thank the Lord.  My babies had a hot meal and a hot bath!  I did the right thing having them stay with my mom.  Pops wanted them to stay home and ride the storm out!  I am glad that I went with my gut (and my heart).  My mom may not be at her best, but she loves her grandchildren!  She'll do anything she can to take care of them. She prayed for those lights to come on, and they turned ON!!!! LOL

Our home still doesn't have power.  However, the back end of the community has power, so I expect that, if not tonight, the power will be on tomorrow.  The girls don't have to go back to school until Thursday, or until the power is restored to the building.  I have gas, though, water, and HOT water, so I can bathe and cook.  I'm happy.

One of the guys who maintains the subdivision went around surveying the damages.  They are going to get this place back into shape in no time.  I cannot put into words how nice this area that I live in is.  And I am grateful, because this is just the kind of place we needed to be in.  We aren't ready for our own house yet, but this neighborhood offers all of the comforts of a home, with apartment-like amenities (maintenance crew, etc.).  It truly was a blessing for us to get in here.

It's still a "free" day at work.  We can use the computer, park on the third level, etc.  I am off tomorrow and Wednesday, though, so things will probably return to normal when I get back. 

I am very impressed with the way the city of Houston has, and is handling the storm's aftermath.  There is NONE of the chaos and confusion that you saw with Katrina.  All operations are organized, and everyone involved knows what is going on.  There are hundreds of utility trucks that have been sent in to the area to help put the power back on, and clear storm debris.  The governor, mayor, senators and city council had to get FEMA's mind right!!!! LOL  And they are NOT putting up with busybody journalists and drama-queen politicians who attempt to make more of unfortunate isolated incidents then need be.  Mayor White is a good leader.  With all of the responsibility that he has to shoulder, he handles it very, very well.  I am always hearing him encouraging his citizens to be patient and courteous on the TV and the radio, and it seems to be working, because everyone here seems to be calm and levelheaded.  There are a few folks who are losing patience and flipping their lids, but nothing like what happened in New Orleans.  The people of Texas enjoy a blessed existence; there is wealth here, with few signs of depravity.  A native New Orleanian is acquainted with depravity all too well.

I was also impressed with the way that Airport Operations had taken care of this airport during the storm.  They maintained this place as they would have if it were their own home.  Everyone is walking around here looking all scraggly and crazy, LOL, but they managed to protect their, and our, livelihood.  

There is major devastation here that cannot be ignored.  FEMA finally rolled in with supplies, and other agencies, such as the Red Cross, faith-based organizations (CHUCH (church), LOL) and residents that are able to help organized themselves to assist in the relief effort.   It will take months, maybe even years, for the coastal cities to rebound, but Texans are a resilient people; I am more than certain that they will.

Adrian 

IKE PART 4: FLOOD!!!!

Although there is no power at my house, I went home and lit the oil lantern, put batteries in my radio, and went to sleep.  I was awakened at about 5:30-6 AM to very loud thunder and lightning.  When I looked out of the window, there was water everywhere.  We were flooded in!  I was very scared, because Pops wasn't home yet.  There were countless calls on the radio station from frantic Texans who were surprised to wake up to water in their homes, drivers stuck on the roadways and freeway because the exits and feeder roads were flooded, and even children who were frightened because of the rain and rising water.  

I called mom first, then Matt (who was on the way home), and the job to tell them that I probably wasn't going to be able to get to work today.  My co-worker told me that many of my other co-workers were flooded in, too, and couldn't make it to work.

When Matt came home, he pulled our cars up to higher ground.  I went back to sleep with him, and silently prayed for it to stop raining.  That heavy rain came out of nowhere.  We thought that the storm was over, but, just like Katrina, the aftermath of the storm can be much worse.  

It was about 10:30-11 AM when the rain finally stopped.  The flood waters didn't get into our home at all, thank the Lord (except for the water leaking from the gutters issue; the carpet by our window is still wet).  The three of us, one of my bachelor neighbors across from me, Ms. Lechter (a 67 y/o white lady who gets around better than I do! LOL), and I walked around pulling branches from the middle of the street and clearing the storm ducts so that the water could drain out.  I was able to get to work today, safely, and on time!

Pops has to pull a 12-hour shift today, and will probably have to do so until the power is up again, and all of the street lights are working.  We are still expected to be without power for awhile.  Mom and the girls aren't holding up too well.  I'm not off until Tuesday, but I will probably head down  there Monday night after work to make sure that they are straight.  I may have to bring Mom home with us, or try and find a hotel that has power for them to stay in for a few days.  We don't have power, but we do have gas and running water.  She doesn't have any of those things, and the situation at her house is bordering on the unsanitary.

Some official in Galveston was on the news fussing angrily because he was frustrated about the long wait for FEMA to bring help.  After three years and a new director, you would think that FEMA has their act together by now.  Damn shame.     

Adrian  

 

IKE PART 3

Pops went to work at about 1:30.  He texted a message to me telling me to check the house, if I am going home today.  We still didn't have any power when he left.

Mom says that they have low water pressure, and can't use the bathroom.  The city is operating on one water pump.  Since the storm has passed us, they are working on bringing the employees back to work to start the other pump.

Kemah, Galveston, Galveston Bay and other coastal cities in Texas are under water.  Most of the hurricane damage is there.  Houston, however, still suffered a lot of structural damage.  The Louisiana coast also suffered some major damage and flooding.  This wasn't as powerful as originally expected, but still a devastating storm in any instance.  There were some deaths, and some people actually had to be rescued from attics and rooftops.  

I probably have to stay here through tomorrow, and then I will probably be released Sunday evening.  There is still a lot of high water surrounding the airport, and many of us cannot leave even if we wanted to. After I have a chance to check out my own home, I will do an update.

Adrian

 

IKE PART 2

Galveston has suffered some heavy damage.  Many cities here are flooded.  There is a lot of debris (tree limbs, street signs, broken glass, etc.) in the roads.  Some of the high rises in downtown Houston have suffered some heavy wind damage.  We are still here, in the call center, hanging tough.  I had gotten some sleep last night, so my supervisor told me to clock in this morning to help out.  We still have power, but the air isn't on.  We have fans blowing, the lights have been turned off, but we still have TV.  AT & T has limited personal cell phone use to texting only.  That's how I have been communicating with Matt.  The power went out at home and at mom's house at about 3 or 4 AM, and the city expects that it will be at least two weeks before power is restored to all homes in the Houston area. 

Nicolette had gotten scared last night, and had to talk to her daddy on the phone until she could go to sleep.  The two little ones slept through most of it.  I slept in my car last night (I have a sleeping bag, blankets, and two pillows), so I was pretty comfortable.  I am "fasting" right now.  I have food, but I will not eat unless I am really hungry, because the water pressure is low.  I remember what it was like in the Dome, where we all had to use those nasty bathrooms that weren't working.  The more you eat and drink, the more you have to go.  My body won't miss a day or two of meals.  The mayor also asked that we not bathe until they restore the water pressure.  I bought cleansing wipes to kind of help keep myself as clean and as fresh as possible during this time, and I went home last night before the weather had gotten too bad and took another bath, shaved EVERYTHING (LOL) and brushed my teeth.   

Pops has to go to work today, but the Mayor advised that he doesn't want anyone venturing out unless it's absolutely necessary.  He was supposed to go to work for 12, but says that he will probably make it there for 5.  By that time, the worst of the storm should be over with,  At this writing, the storm seems to be weakening, so things are pretty calm. 

The good news is that so far, there is only slight flooding in my neighborhood, but the houses aren't flooded.  The water that is getting into the house is coming from the gutters overflowing onto the bushes in front of our window, and the accumulation of water there.  And the power is still on here at the airport.  We will probably have to hang here for awhile, until things get back to normal.  At least after it is all over, we will be able to return to our homes this time. 

Adrian